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Wondering what to do with your kids memorabilia? Don’t do this!

A few days ago I was home sick and ended up watching the new ABC show, The Revolution.  To be honest, I was kind of saddened that this show replaced One Life to Live, as ABC soaps have been my chicken soup when I’m stuck home ever since I was a little girl (which believe me was a long while ago).  Still, what the heck, I’m a captive audience.  There is nothing else on TV.

The cast seems pretty good.  Ty Pennington has done several shows that I have liked in the past.  He’s a decent TV handyman.  Today, the segment that caught my eye was all about using children’s artwork and memorabilia – how to showcase it.  Watching the segment that you’ll see below, my heart stopped.  I immediately started shaking my head and my blood pressure began increasing steadily and rapidly.

Watch the video at http://stagingandredesign.com/2012/wondering-what-to-do-with-your-kids-memorabilia-dont-do-this/

 

While, on the surface, this seems like an easy enough task, let the professional home stager in me come out and be clear for just a few minutes as a rebuttal to this “fantastic” idea.

First of all, the average homeowner moves every 3-5 years.  While many may be staying put a little longer due to economic reasons, I have no doubt that this trend will go right back to where it was in short order.  Even if it holds true and we were to say that it shifted to every 5-7 years, consider this…. If you chose to do this with your kids’ artwork, it’s gone forever once you decide you are moving or your child wants a room makeover.

It will  not peel off.  You will have to scrape it off in little unusable chunks and throw every bit of it away.  Don’t think for a moment that you can just leave that to the new buyers.  Would YOU buy a home with some other kids artwork wallpapered all over the walls?

Emotionally, how will you feel forever destroying their handy work?  I have had to tell more than a few clients to destroy some of the most beautiful and sentimental nurseries or kids’ rooms, telling them to paint over hand prints, foot prints, height charts, custom murals and more.  It’s never fun.  They never want to do it.  They always get mad when I tell them.  It’s emotional.  It has to be – it’s about your kids and their life and memories.  Still, my responses are business-like.  They are now selling a property.  It needs to be marketed properly to the new buyers.

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This idea is going to bring some short term happiness and a significant amount of pain when at some point – and it will happen – you have to rip it all down.  Instead, why not try mounting it to a foam board decoupage style, or better yet, hang some pieces in frames around your home and switch some out as they grow, but keep some from when they were small.

I know that on the surface, this idea seemed charming, but the reality is something much different.  You child will grow up and not want this as their room any longer or you will decide to move and it will all need to come down.  The emotion of destroying all of your children’s artwork in that way is very troublesome to many moms.  I have to tell them to do it all the time.  Let me save you the pain in advance, just don’t do it.

Featured photo from Social Cafe Mag.  They have some great ideas for displaying kids artwork.

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The link so you can watch the video since it didn't import & I'm on my pad & can't edit... http://stagingandredesign.com/2012/wondering-what-to-do-with-your-kids-memorabilia-dont-do-this/
Melissa Marro on Feb, 16 at 6:32 PM
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YIkes... I watched the video.... I don't think I would like to permanently  mount childrens art on the wall. I did like the acrylic clip board idea!

 

Lyneen on Feb, 16 at 10:07 PM
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I've never seen much that I thought was good enough to want it hung like real art.  Parents should let kids make a scrap book with their drawings not plaster it all over a wall.  Or put a bulletin board in the childs room where they can tag a few items up.  I love my DD and I thought she was pretty talented, but I wouldn't consider her stuff "art", and spend money framing etc it.  WOW, sounds over the top. 

I might disagree with how long people stay put though.  Hubby and I've been in this house for 28 years, and as think about my friends, my family, my co-workers none of them have moved around every 3-5 years.  I love watching those house hunting shows on the tube, but get irritated with all the realators  tell people to do before they put the house on the market.  It's never made sense to me to paint before you move out, let the people who move in paint so they can paint the colors they want....same with carpet.  To me, you're buying the house, the structure not someone else's personality.  

Sandy Holladay on Feb, 17 at 4:58 AM
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Lyneen - Yes that's a good idea.

Sandy - That was my full time job before we moved to Charleston, and my current full time job is teaching peole how, what & why to deliver that information.  Without getting into a really long discussion about it, I'll tell you why - because homes sell for about 3-6% more and in about 22% of the time.  Buyers aren't buying your personality, they are buying a clean slate.  If you've been in your home a long time then it's more difficult for you to understand the mentality of the MAJORITY of today's buyers.  Sure, you will find someone with the ideals that they want to make the house thiers and will be willing to do all the work and plan on staying in it for a long time... but they will pay a lot less than the others and you'll wait a lot longer for them to come along.  It's all about how serious you are maximizing your equity and selling quickly. 

Melissa Marro on Feb, 17 at 5:55 AM
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Thanks Melissa, I've really wondered about that as we watch those shows.  How does the money people put into say new carpet, completely repainted, switching out counter tops and appliances pay out.  I mean the price tag for you the seller to do all that work isn't small, do you really get that back?

Back in the day, no one expected appliances when you moved unless it was a rental appartment.  Funny how that's changed.  Everyone took the stove, fridge etc with them when they moved.

My biggest pet peeve when I watch those shows is the kids, (who aren't really as they're 30 ish) who've been leaving on their Mom and Dad so they can save money and expect the top of the line everything right out of the box.  They all seem so selfish and spoiled.  I often wonder how much of it is real vs staged.  In your experience do people really act like that?

Sandy Holladay on Feb, 17 at 6:56 AM
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In my experience, some of that is staged, but more or less it is true.  If you don't have those things, particularly in a good moving market - and by that I mean the average non-rural environment, even & especially in this down economy, your house will take a very long time to sell and it will sell for much less than it should.

there's a great chart that shows the return on investment for making home improvements for selling.  This is why professional home stagers are so important.  It's our job to know exactly what improvements will help you sell faster, for more money and what that ROI is likely to be.  I know, in my business, my team only recommended things that would make at least 100% ROI either in faster offers (saved carrying costs) or higher offers.

The real estate world - all of it - has changed radically since you bought or sold a home.  These changes have made "move in ready" the law of the land.  I can assure you that your family is no longer the norm - it might be for your age group, but the buyers with all the money are in the 28-45 yr old age range and they do move frequently - often because of job changes.  Our global economics has changed the amount of time an employee typically stay at a job, or at a given location within a job.  I know we personally have moved 5 times since 2000.  

Melissa Marro on Feb, 17 at 7:06 AM
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I've always hung my children's art around the house. I love seeing how they learn and grow. When they didn't want me to hang it any more I made each child a box of their best work so that they can walk down memory lane when they want.

Permanetely affixing any art to a wall is a completely stupid idea! Unless it's a painted mural and you're going to live there forever. Someone should have thought a lot harder about that idea.

Jennifer Tobicoe on Feb, 17 at 7:11 AM
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Watching the segment again I noticed the woman actually says she's moved several times and carted the children's artywork with her. She also says she can't get rid of the art so why oh why would she want to wallpaper a wall with it and they move and leave it? Her face ddin't look happy.
Jennifer Tobicoe on Feb, 17 at 7:19 AM
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Great info and thanks for the links Melissa.  I love learning from you.  Except...lol, now I really feel old.  lol  But, your insight is helpful.  Hubby and I will review the charts, this is something we've talked about alot as we begin to think about retirement, whether to stay or think about moving and all things related to that.  You're a wealth of knowledge!  Thanks for the use of your brain.
Sandy Holladay on Feb, 17 at 8:26 AM
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Thanks Melissa, even without your expertise (not that I don't value it), the two things I would have picked up on is that the woman is #1 very attached to her kids work #2 they have moved several times.  Now if I was servicing a customer that made these comments the last solution I would have come up with is permanent wall paper....I don't think Ty was listening..LOL!  

Thank you for highlighting this, your wisdom makes so much sense!

Connie Haskell on Feb, 17 at 10:29 PM
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